theladysadist: mistressvaliant: bbwmilf88: mistressvaliant: I…





I am posting this for the new members of our community or those who are unsure of what this lifestyle is all about. There are misconceptions about D/s, what it means, what it is supposed to be. It concerns me. So I’m going to put myself out there. If something doesn’t feel right, trust yourself, if you need help, ask someone like me, or anyone you trust. Don’t suffer in silence.

As a Domme, as a woman, as a human being, I care about all submissives. They can be so incredibly vulnerable by their nature. I’m going to call on all the responsible Dom/mes out there… Open your inbox and if you see someone in need or in fear or just confused, help them! Please, it is our responsibility to protect, love, guide and be a friend to all who need us. Step up and speak out for what is good and sacred in our community, set an example! Listen, protect, guide, respect.

If you need help, ask me, please. There are wonderful people here in our community, I’m proud to know so many, there are also predators. Submissives, just be safe, trust your gut… Off my soap box now.

Mistress Valiant 💋💋

@gameryeti85 some good stuff

Wanted to reblog this very old post as it came up in a discussion tonight…💋💋

Always a reblog 💕