Have you ever had a sub more freaky then you? I ask this because my sub wants me to actually hurt her like with glass and needles. I don’t want to put her into any real danger where her life might be threatened it’s beginning to get pretty hard to be in a relationship with her.What would you do?

Talk, this is one of the reasons polyamory works for new since there are so many preferences out there. You just need to to talk about it. It is ok for a dom to have hard limits or soft limits, I know that I have my own.