how can I be more dominate to my girl? she says she wants to be my slut but I don’t want to hurt her. I’m always afraid I’m going to go too far. we have safe words and everything. I just need to know how to be dominate without actually hurting her.

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This is an interesting question, dust and format communication would be in order. As a sub what does she need. Is she a pure masochist, in which case you need to look at her pain as pleasure. Does she crave structure? In which case the rules are most important and the punishment is a means to an end. Etc etc. In the end you have to see what it is she wants out of it, then see that you are pleasing her overall. If she is approaching you about the subjugation then trust she wants it. Always have a safe word/words to ensure saftey and that it is what she wants, but trust her about her wants. If you know she wants/benefits from it, then it will not weigh on you and you will also enjoy yourself more. Also don’t forget to discuss after care.